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    July 17, 2008
    There’s No Glamour In Being A Teen Mom, Unless You’re Jamie Lynn Spears

    Spears_okAnd even then, I expect it’s not all it’s cracked up to be. Ginger writes about this on her blog:

    In the real world, where there are no big time Hollywood agents
    working out million-dollar exclusive photo deals for you, many teenage
    mothers and fathers end up struggling to finish high school, more times
    than not choosing instead to get blue-collar jobs to make ends meet.
    Hopefully, there might be a grandparent around who can babysit while
    the parent goes out and works to support the child…that is, unless the
    teenaged mom decides to put the child up for adoption, or opts to
    terminate the pregnancy.

    Teenage pregnancy isn’t the world that Zoey 101’s Jamie Lynn Spears
    is portraying to you in the glossy pages of OK! Magazine, my dear.

    I, myself, was a teen mom. Okay, I was 18 when my son was born- old enough to vote, old enough to hold down most kinds of jobs- and it was still ridiculously hard. I was lucky enough to be able to go to college, but I watched wistfully as my friends went out any time they felt like it. I missed out on many study sessions because I was unable to arrange babysitting. And worst of all, because I was going to school and working to make sure my son and I stayed fed, clothed, and sheltered, I missed out on much of his early childhood.

    I hate to see the media glamorizing Jamie Lynn Spears’ pregnancy and birth because that’s not what it’s really like. Let’s take her shiny kitchen and totally trash it. Or put it in a trailer, because that’s what you’re truly heading for, teen moms. I started out my adult life in debt for all the medical bills incurred with my son. I’m 32 years old now and I’m still feeling effects from that.

    Try telling that story, media.

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    Comments

    Agreed! And even though she has financial support, she will find it to be incredibly hard. I was 16 and I can assure it's hard (I'm 20 now and attending college). I wish her luck, but I wish the media (and jamie herself) explained how it REALLY feels.

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