I must ask: Is it just me and my kids?? Is it normal to dread taking your children to the grocery store (or most any other store for that matter)? Are my boys extra naughty or is there a boat full of mothers in the same situation?
Generally, I do my grocery shopping on the weekends so my boys can stay at home with my husband. Sometimes I need to go in between and it turns out to be an unnecessary stressful event.
Baby D is 19 months old and has been difficult at the store for the last several months. As the groceries pile up in the cart, he squirms around in his seat and reaches behind him to grab at the items. Next thing I know, he is trying to eat away at some package. The bread gets squished, he gnaws at some cardboard or is trying to get his hands on the dirty meat.
Today I had to run out and only needed a few groceries. Although he could not get to any of the food, he practically threw a tantrum the whole time! As soon as we got back in the truck, he was happy as a lark!
I won’t even go into the nightmares that my 3 year old presents at the store. Quite frankly, even my 9 year old son makes a shopping trip more difficult than if I was alone! Geesh, should it be this hard??
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Que the Michael Jackson song:
You are not alone!
I am here with you!
Posted by: tanyetta | April 4th, 2008 1:35 pm |
I feel for you Tanyetta but I am happy to have the company!
Posted by: KellyBax | April 4th, 2008 1:55 pm |
I remember being that person, before I had kids, who wouldn't understand how some moms could let their kids behave "that way." Now, the table has turned, and I'm one of those moms! I actually wrote a blog post all about it: http://smartypantsmama.blogspot.com/2008/03/ok-so-ive-caved-little-i-promise-ill.html
Posted by: caroline | April 4th, 2008 3:07 pm |
I know! I used to think that way too and just KNEW the MY kids wouldn't behave that way. Ohhh, how the tables have turned!
Posted by: KellyBax | April 5th, 2008 7:45 am |
I hate to state the obvious thing to try, but my son is not a good shopper, but food is the perfect thing to keep him occupied. I will get a cereal bar and because it's in a wrapper he thinks it's a candy bar, and it keeps him busy. But it only buys you a little bit. otherwise I give him a "forbidden" object like a weird item from the store to play with. Maybe you have tried this. Hope things get easier.
Posted by: Heidi mother of a 2 year old dynamo | April 7th, 2008 1:59 am |
Unfortunately, the one thing that helps occupy him is my cell phone!
Posted by: KellyBax | April 8th, 2008 7:55 am |