
Here we go…I am now in what they call the "teenage years" and I am supposed to know the answers to everything. What I mean is, I feel like I just brought my firstborn home from the hospital. Do you remember when you had your first baby and you were calling the pediatrician over every little noise your baby made? Well, I certainly remember because I did just that!
It seems like all of a sudden I don’t know what I am doing anymore and need someone to tell me the right answers to all of the do and donts for teens.
When Should Kids Start Dating over at Supernanny Rules caught my eye……
"When I was growing up, my father made it VERY clear that I was not
going to start dating until I was 16 and not a single day before!The issue was never pushed. I knew he meant business.
Once I did reach the age of 16 and was able to start dating, it was
nearly impossible to have a social life, because word of my strict dad
spread quickly around our school.All it took was ONE date to ruin my social life and teen dating career, but looking back, I’m glad my dad did what he did."
I was also 16 when I was allowed to go on my first date. I never had a
problem with it though I am not sure that I would give my child an age
that I think they will be ready.
I believe that as parents we should not allow our children to be in situations that they are not ready for. Just because the times change or other teens are doing it does not mean that mine will be.
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According to my husband, our girls aren't allowed to date until they're 30. I think that might be pushing it if we want grandkids while we're still somewhat young enough to enjoy them!
Posted by: Deb - Mom of 3 Girls | September 17th, 2007 1:19 pm |
I think we will know when our kids are ready. After all, it is the Holy Spirit that will lead and guide you as a parent as to when certain things are ok and when they are not. I happen to know that you have raised good kids and when they are ready you will be too. Don't worry, you are doing a great job!
Posted by: kristen | September 17th, 2007 1:44 pm |
My parents said 16 too. However, they didn't really need an age limit for me. When I was in high school, no one dated. Everyone went out in groups and we all had a great time.
I agree that you shouldn't let your kids be in situations they aren't ready for, but times are changing so fast, I have no idea what social norms will be by the time my son (now a toddler) reaches that time.
Posted by: Heidi | September 17th, 2007 3:07 pm |
We did a lot of group things when I was 16 also. Times are changing and I'm just trying to keep up!
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