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Pets and children can become stressed during moving. If moving locally, you may want to leave these special family members with a friend during moving day.
In a few days, I’m going on a mini vacation with my boyfriend of four years. We’re going to the mountains to hike and see the fall leaves to celebrate our anniversary. Even though we’ve been dating for such a long time, and have made plenty of great memories, we’ve never actually gone on vacation before together. It’ll be a nice break from work and other hectic things, and I know we both need it. Plus, it’s my firm belief that all couples, married or not, should constantly be working on their relationship by spending time together and having new experiences. Plus, if you’ve been married for a few years and have children- you have to work especially hard to make time for each other. If you are looking for some romantic ideas to share with your spouse, just read this post by Darlene Schacht at Time Warp Wife:
-Stargazing in the middle of the night
-Going on a long road trip
-Exchanging love letters
-Planting a garden or a tree together
-Dreaming about the future
To be honest….the end result is actually really cute
Two weeks ago, I wrote a post on helpful study tips for students. You can read it here. While there are plenty of tips for how to study correctly for exams, there are also tons of things that you SHOULDN’T do. The best thing is, you don’t have to be in college to take advantage of these tips- anyone at any schooling level can benefit from them. When studying, here’s what NOT to do, by Rachelcerbone at SRTrends:
-Do not save it for the last minute.
-Do NOT get distracted- put your phone in another room, disable Facebook on your computer.
-Don’t underestimate how much time you need to study
-Don’t move on from a topic if you don’t understand it. Contact your professor and ask questions
-Don’t be afraid to use your professor’s office hours! That’s what they’re there for.
I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again. I LOVE collecting baby names. Now, I realize I will never use the majority of them, but the obsession doesn’t stop. I have around 5 naming books, pages and pages of lists, and 2 sites that I visit DAILY for new names. I also love writing- my own creative stories, and this blog. That’s why I love this list by Lauren Hartmann at Disney Baby- for names inspired by writers. Here are some of my favorites:
-Walt (of course).
One of the most emotionally draining parts of being a parent is dealing with temper tantrums. Every kid has them (some more than others), and it’s important to know how to deal with them- both for the health of your child, and your own sanity. While it can be extremely difficult, the most important thing to remember is to stay calm. Read this article by Rebekah at The Golden Gleam for more temper taming tips:
-Serve as a coach: help your child understand her feelings; acknowledge that they are normal and valid
-Define peace: act as a peaceful example
-Let them know you love them, as much as possible
-Give them more control and responsibility, but show discipline when needed
Siblings fight- these two are starting early.
When I think of easy, cheap costumes- I prefer things that can be made with items I already have around the house. A few of my favorites? Fortune tellers (just throw on a bunch of scarves and jingly jewelry), pirates (similar, but with bandanas and an eyepatch), and thrift store pieces put together. Another very simple costume idea? Zombies! All you need is a little bit of makeup, and some old clothes that you don’t mind ripping up. Here’s how to apply zombie makeup, by Rachel at Madame Deals:
-For an extra gross effect, apply ripped up toilet paper to the face to create a “wound,” then go over it with makeup
-Add black eyeshadow all around the eyes
-Use gray makeup on the rest of the face. If you want, you can use fake blood around the mouth as well.
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